by Heidi Heron | Apr 8, 2013 | Featured, Life, NLP
Many things in life were putting pressure on Emma. Her husband just changed jobs and was spending less and less time with her, but is excelling in his new role. Their 9 year old son was getting in trouble at school, her bosses boss was away and this lead to more pressure on her immediate boss and subsequently Emma. Her boss often raised his voice and was very stern with her and he constantly was adding to her workload to offset his own. This added work saw Emma making simple mistakes, and she thought other people in the company were also putting pressure on her to hold her weight in the team.
While she knew she had the capacity and capability, the stress was starting to take its toll. Emma was getting headaches and feeling very overwhelmed – so she did what Emma does with stress… she put her head down and waited it out. (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Mar 25, 2013 | Family & Parenting, Life, NLP
How do you handle stressful conditions? What happens when you are in an argument? How about when things are not going your way? Does you communication style change?
For a lot of people, when they are feeling under pressure their style of communication changes to reflect various patterns in life. For some, this can be useful and for others this can be very damaging. Over the next few weeks I am going to be investigating these different communication styles, strategies for improvement and simply ways to detect your own stress coping style. (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Mar 3, 2013 | Featured, NLP
Oh, I have so many favourite things! Especially when I’m talking about NLP. There are very few parts of NLP that I don’t love… well, the politics in the field I could do without, but the actual aspects of NLP… Love it!
However, if I have to chunk down to a few things – I’d have to say one of my favourite things is the Meta Model and Meta Questions. (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Feb 20, 2013 | Featured, Life, NLP
Have you ever had ‘one of those days’? I have one or two every now and then. They are far from my favourite thing. Yet, being the human that I am… I can step up and say I have them.
Frustration, sadness, anger, depression… and people look at me like “What?? You??” when I say that I too have days (and sometimes days upon days) of these moods. Sure. Why not. Last time I checked, I’m still human. (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Feb 8, 2013 | Featured, Life, NLP
Do you let yourself get outside of your comfort zone often? When you do, what is it that pushes you out? Or perhaps pulls you out? And what makes you jump back in?
I know a lot of people that seem to live on the edge of comfort. They know what they want – and they know what it will take to get there, and from time to time they ‘stick their toe’ over the edge, but then retreat back into safety. (more…)
