by Heidi Heron | Jan 19, 2012 | Featured, Life, NLP
I’ve tried that before; that didn’t work for me; That was too hard.
I hear these ‘excuses’ time and time again from people all around me. We are in a fast paced world and we want instant results. Just last night I bought a new book for my kindle and it wasn’t there within 15 seconds and I wondered if my purchase went through. After a few more ‘refreshes’ the book was magically in its place approximately 20 seconds after purchasing it.
This got me wondering: am I as impatient with normal life as I am with technology? (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Jan 9, 2012 | Featured, Life, NLP, Whatever
For anyone who knows me, you know that at heart, I’m an introvert. You will also know that I’m very ambitious and resourceful – and I love my Heidi-Time.
Today, I’d like to share a little bit more about me. The purpose of doing so will hopefully get you to look inside of you and find out what is going to help get you out of your comfort zone and onto the track that will get you to your goals this year. (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Dec 8, 2011 | Featured, Life, NLP
How do you handle endings? Endings of whatever. Job, season, relationship, study…
I’ve found that there are four main ways people handle endings. Not one is better than the other, perse – just different. And if your way works for you, then keep it. If not, we’ve got these great skills within NLP that can help us to challenge our current patterns of thought, behaviour and emotion.
When something ends, we have to let our unconscious mind have time to create a new map. Remember one of the NLP Presuppositions – the map is not the territory. (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Nov 20, 2011 | Featured, Life, Whatever
If you are anything like me, you take for granted those wonderful things in life that really should be treasured, blessed, savoured and celebrated. It is so easy, too easy, to just not appreciate what is around us. Not just around us however, but inside of us – our own selves, lives and beings.
At this time of year, there is a lot talk about “what are you thankful for?â€Â And this is a good question. At least once a year there is a pointed question that is asking us to take stock of the goodness and life and to give thanks.
However, maybe there is a better question this year: (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Oct 7, 2011 | Featured, Life, NLP
Can you think of an emotion that stops people in their tracks? An emotion that makes people turn and run away? A feeling that people want to avoid so much that it causes them to not even attempt something?
I know people who won’t even start a relationship because of the fear that it will end. I know people who won’t change jobs because they fear the interview process. I know people who fear being wrong so they won’t make a decision. I know people who won’t step one foot out of bounds for fear of never getting back in bounds.
So the question becomes, why is fear so fearful? (more…)
