by Heidi Heron | Nov 10, 2012 | Featured, Life, NLP
It has always been interesting to me when two people are in a heated argument about something – there generally isn’t a win/win proposition at the end of the day. Think about it, usually its “I’m right and you are wrong†coming from both parties – hence the fight in the first place! And, when you put two head strong people together, there can be friction. But, what if you could ease the tension and change the scenario? It only takes one person in an argument to change the tempo. (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Oct 30, 2012 | Featured, Life, NLP
With Halloween coming up this week, I thought I’d bring to light the tick-or-treat aspect of life. Every single day we have the ability to lean toward a trick or a treat. Not just on October 31st.
Fear, jealousy, anger, guilt, angst, boredom, frustration and many other seeming negative emotions often get the better of many of us. Sometimes they are a trick – tricking us to run away. Sometimes they are a treat -Â alerting us to something to be aware of.
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by Heidi Heron | Oct 10, 2012 | Featured, Life, NLP, Whatever
Time. It’s on a continuum right? It’s sequential and moves from past to now to future. Well, that is at least what ‘they’ say. And, if calendars are anything to go by, ‘they’ are right. I know that in the reality of my world, I wake up Monday and the next day is Tuesday. I know that the month after April is May – and I know that 5 years from now will be 2017. In the reality of my world.
But is it really a continuum? I can access, with my mind, any-time. (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Sep 20, 2012 | Featured, Life, NLP
In some little way, there are disappointments all around us. Maybe its as simple as the Corn Flake box is empty or my TV show didn’t record last night. With these, we have a way already to handle them – well, most of us do. Acceptance.
But how about with the bigger disappointments in life? How do you handle those? You know – you didn’t get the promotion you knew was going to be yours, the job you love just came to an unexpected end, a relationship ended that you thought would last a lifetime? Are you as accepting in those situations? Most likely not. If so, huge pats on the back for you! You are better at this than I am! (more…)
by Heidi Heron | Sep 14, 2012 | Featured, Life, NLP
Many years ago, a young woman took a journey by sea from the UK to the USA. For months and months she saved money for her fare, and once she had that she bought her ticket. Once she had her ticket, she started to save again to purchase food to bring along with her. She bought bread, fruit and dried meats and brought enoughwater for her two week journey.
When she arrived on the ship she entered her tiny cabin and sorted through her food and water to divide up her bounty for the journey. She decided to not leave her little cabin for the two weeks because she needed to protect what she had. Two days before the ship docked in the US she ran out of food. But, so close to the end of her journey she made up her mind to perservere – she was almost there. (more…)